16 About Negativities

Negative news affects you negatively. You do not want that. Never speak about disasters, wars, accidents etc. Speaking about such things makes you negative and when your Energy becomes negative then you become weak. If somebody starts speaking negative, you quickly stop him; you don’t want to listen about that! Remember to keep your Energy. If somebody is trying to put negativity in your Energy, be strong and determined. If a “no, I do not want that” is not enough, then you can imagine in your mind, sending back the negativity to that person. You can even put your palm of the hand out towards that person; it is great, and it works all the time. “I do not want this! I have enough of my stories and I do not want more!” this is my reply, if some stranger is telling me all his miseries. Don’t expose your Energy Centers or Chakras directly to those of a negative person! Stay on the side of that person; but if really nothing works, remove yourself from the situation; or if it is in your house ask the person to go!

If you know something negative about a situation, country, people etc. then keep that information secret. Don’t tell it to the people. Really they also do not want to listen to that. The more you get connected to people you will automatically open up about everything, but don’t go into negativity when you first meet somebody; it is not good for the relationship. Avoid gossip!

By observing and analyzing you will find out when you start speaking badly about somebody. Then stop and change the argument. You do not want to loose Energy on that person; this is what you can say to the other. Focus on yourself and quickly start with the new Energy, where you are not affected by negativities.

The first step is to remove all your negativities and then automatically, you will not allow any new negativity to touch you anymore.

It does not mean that you go in a kind of fantasy world where everybody is good. No, you know exactly the shadow side in the other person; you are always alert about that. But you shift your attention to what is ok, to what you like. By doing so you increase the positive in that person and the negativities will disappear automatically. It work’s! Epstein in his first stage is teaching this. Find out what is peacefully and perfectly ok inside you and than expand that. It will burn all the bad and negative. Come and try!

Include yourself into it also, do not think or speak negative about yourself. Find out your negative points and work on them, but it is no need to openly share them with others. It changes when you have a deep connection with somebody, then you can openly speak about everything. You feel it is much helpful to share with others your own experience but it is better to do it after, when you have overcome the negativities and not when you are to much involved into those negative “stories”.

Be aware that everything is changing every second, so every so called bad person; maybe, the moment you are speaking bad about him is already changed. Be also aware that you are also changing all the time and so your point of view about a person may change and afterwards you will feel bad about what you said. If you look at the background and family situation of every person, then you can always find a reason for his behavior. That is the moment for you to be compassionate.

If you feel that a person is really going in the hands of a person who has bad intention, then the situation changes. You try to find out how much that person is involved with that other, (bad) person. If you see that the person is totally involved; then there is nothing you can do, it is his karma! You are not responsible for his karma. If the involvement is less, or there is no involvement jet, then you warn that person. Somebody is going into trouble and you may say something lightly. If response comes that you open up. You speak about personal experiences; never tell what somebody else told you!! If you feel you can tell simply, “I do not like the Energy of that person”, that’s all.

NEGATIVITY CREATES NEGATIVITY
POSITIVITY CREATES POSITIVITY

25.06.06 the Centre of Light