11 Male and Female Energy, part 2

Male and Female Energies are very strong. One attracts the other continuously. Always looking for a balance. Baba Vishnudas says that today there is a madness for sex. He also says that, in reality the longing is not for sex, but for oneness. To become one with another human being, that is heaven on earth; to exactly understand what is going on inside you and inside another person at the same time. How you can ever do a mistake in relationships? When you are completely in tuned with your combination of male/female Energy. When you love yourself completely, then the outside becomes less important. If the other loves you or not is irrelevant, important is your love. And your love is not circumstance dependent.

Real tantra is to work with these Energies. It is not a work it is a play. An example: If an aggressive male is coming in your Energy, then you need to become quite, passive. It balances the Energy. You stay in that for a while. If the situation stays the same you continue your meditation. If the person calms down, you can welcome him. Welcome in the world of the humans. This person doesn’t like to stay in that aggressive Energy, but is not able to come out of it! According to your vibration he will relax, maybe for the first time and he will be surprised. What happened? “I am not aggressive and agitated!” If he recognizes that you have done something then he will connect with you. If he is not aware, let it be. Don’t try to make disciples or students. But if the situation doesn’t change then you must remove from this Energy, it can create you harm.

So you can play with your male/female Energies with everybody. It does not mean if you are a male you play only with female or if you are a female you play only with males. Remember that everybody is male and female at the same time.

Something about the difference of male and female: The male usually is much more one-sided. He is using only the right side, or he is using only the left side of his brain! The female mostly is both, right and left at the same time, sometimes more right and less left and sometimes more left and less right. I can understand that it is much more difficult for a female to change sides consciously. I can imagine that if a man is totally in his left rational side he could seem cold to the female.

Be aware that when you start having sex with a new partner and continue staying with your actual partner, you create big tensions. Your partner feels what you are doing. Your vibration has changed; there is a knowing without any proof. Many people think they are clever. Poor men and women, they don’t know what they are doing. They create confusion and tensions in their Energy. Who wants that?

Awareness is when you are living guided by the irrational right side of your third eye and when your intellect or left side of your third eye is always there as an observer and ready to interfere. Both sides are present at the same time; which is basically a female quality.

I am aware that there is the question of cultural background to consider; but you can imagine that here the lesson for the male and the female are different. The male (here I speak about a male of Western culture) needs to shift his focus from the rational left side to the irrational right side. The female on the other hand needs to relax the irrational right side and use the rational left side differently; specially in a situation of danger or when a difficulty arises. I am also aware that this considerations are a generalization and not valid for everybody.

23.06.06 the Centre of Light