Indigo relationships & non-relationships

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This is sort of moving on from the indigo sexuality thread and something that was briefly mentioned there...

Even though it's nice to be around people and have friends, especially those who understand you, I want to ask how many people actually prefer time alone and prefer not to embark upon relationships in favour of having free time to themselves to do what they want to do and to follow their own path?

I know I certainly need a lot of time to myself and hate to be held back by anyone. It may sound selfish and being honest, I think I'm selfish, but time and time again I find I can only relax properly and recharge my batteries when I am alone. Especially when at home, there is nothing greater than being alone. Even when at work I'm probably the only person there who prefers to take their meal break alone.

So for relationships, for me they are too binding and restrictive. I want to do what I want when I went, and not be held back or have to answer to anyone.

Even though I only claim to be indigo, I have read that this is a common trait of crystals, even as far as having a hermit like existance.

Maybe it's just the crystal in me?