Helping a disconnected dark deed soul

I need a little advice. Again. Yes. Me.

I understand to love everyone, and see who they really are. Well, sometimes those that have no clue who they really are do some very mean unspirited things.

There is a man that has been doing these things to my husband and in essence to my family for many years. Just when things are going good he'll do or say something to someone else spreading his dark poisons.

When I first began practicing intent spells he did something then. I know revenge is not of spirit, so I chose to perform a spell and sent him "Truth". Either his blocked the receipt of this spell, or he feels that all he is doing is 'truth'.

Well here he comes again, doing harm (yes this may be an illusion itself; but I feel it's liks its a dark hand that keeps coming at me, and I must Do Something to stop it, like it its depleting me; and ignoring it hasn't helped as of yet.

I wish him to connect with spirit. I wish him to seek brighter and lighter ways.

I thought of sending him compassion, but it may be like truth; his soul is so disconnected he is not open to recieve.

Any ideas?

This is so much on my husband he is considering filing harrasment and slander charges; which we would most definitely win. I don't want to go down that road; which maybe if we had long ago we could have blocked some of his dark attacks. ANd then this may cause his to send darker attacks, which he has; and I must say I don't like being scared in and around my own home....

I know my ego is awake this morning....

Help me see the light.

Thanks for taking the time to read this and know any responses I will read; sometimes I'm a little slow on the thank you's, but know I appreciate each and Every One of you who reads and/or replies.

Blessings,
ColorGoddess