Getting the Love we Want ~ ArchAngel Uriel
Getting the Love we Want ~ ArchAngel Uriel
Our life journey is focused on getting love, not in a romantic sense, but receiving the validation, valuation, respect, honor and appreciation that we want from others. We can spend a lifetime seeking this until we learn two things-when we settle for less than what we want we block the flow of love to us and being able to detach and release is as important as being willing to give love in order to receive it. The love we want is really the physical manifestation of the unconditional love that we know in spirit and the love we receive from others is merely a mirror of the love we have for ourselves. So how do we get the love we want when our experience may show us that we get some love, but not always what we want and we are afraid that if we let that go we will not have another chance at getting or receiving love?
We all want everyone to love us because we are a good person. We want everyone to treat us as we treat them and to acknowledge us for who we are. And we are not always selective. We cast out our 'love net' and hope that we will catch something that will meet at least a small portion of our needs. The belief that we should be happy with what we get and not complain or expect more is what causes us to settle for less than what we really want. We get the love we want when we narrow our focus to that alone and let everything else move on.
Sometimes our lesson is to learn to hold out for what we truly want and to say 'no' to those things that are not right for us. We are being challenged to acknowledge that what others give us is the best that they have to give. If that is not right for us, it's not that something is wrong with them, we need to look at the energy that we are putting out and look at where we are accepting less than we desire or deserve. There is a lot of pressure on us at this time to detach from those things that are not right for us, that take our energy, do not bring us joy and create drama and chaos.
Two things cannot occupy the same energetic space at the same time. So if we are in any situation that does not meet our needs, its replacement cannot manifest until we are willing to detach and let go. We must also be committed to our joy and to what we want in our lives, not allowing ourselves to get sidetracked into situations and relationships where we have to settle. Trusting that the Universe brings us exactly what we ask for, believe we can have what we want and remaining true to ourselves is so important in this process. And when we love ourselves enough to release our attachments to everything and everyone that does not give us exactly what we want we can get the love we want and as much as we need.
♥~Walking together in Love,Light & Awareness~♥
Laurence
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