Healing the inner child

HEALING THE INNER CHILD

Beloved Friends,

Greetings in the love and light of Great Spirit!!!

Healing the inner child is one of the most important healing to be done in one’s life. I am sharing this because of what I have been seeing again and again in all the people who come for spiritual healing and counseling. People are not able to move ahead or expand themselves because they have failed to heal their inner child first.

Deep within each and every one of us lives this inner being, a child of about 2 – 5 years of age. This child is the one who controls the adult human always. How did this child come into being? The moment we were born into this earth plane we came into an environment that introduced us to fear. We were lied to by the world every step of the way and the lie was that we are “not good enough” and that we are “not worthy”. This lie was constantly drummed into us as children by parents, authority figures, and the world at large. At this time we need to remember that we volunteered in the soul level to come into this discord on this planet and rise up above fear and become the warriors of Light. We need to clearly understand that we are not victims before we proceed to analyze this further.

This child who is totally living in fear did not grow up to maturity because he/she is scared to expand or take risk to move ahead. So even though the physical body grows to adulthood, this child gets buried deep in the heart and stays there, but takes control of the adult human mind. I experienced the attitude of the inner child by going into my experience as a child. As long as I can remember throughout my childhood I was physically abused by my parents, especially my father. And every time I was beaten I thought that I was bad and that I deserved the punishment.

I understand that many of us have gone through similar experiences in different ways in our childhood and this is how the inner child came into being. The child thinks, “I am not worthy, I deserve more pain, I deserve to be punished, I am not good enough”.
These thoughts take over the mind and the mind becomes a chatterbox of these thoughts in many ways, totally taking over our life and making decisions from the place of fear!
This is the main block in our path. That is why inspite of all the initiations, meditations, prayers and practices, people find themselves stuck. Although they call themselves to be very Spiritual people they cannot love themselves and hence are not able to be in the wholesome place of Power. I witnessed this very recently with important people in the Spiritual community also; actually they are very good channels and teachers, but they are not able to love themselves!

The main reason is that they have not healed the inner child. And the inner child is also the place where the ego is, and hence once the ego lies to them that they are okay, they are not able to accept that they do not love themselves. You can see very clearly through such people, they do not treat their bodies good, they do not give adequate food and rest for their bodies and on top of it some abuse themselves with cigarettes and alcohol, you can also see that they are not givers for they cannot give to others fully. These are things to analyze from the soul level and see that these persons are truly unconscious of what they are doing. The moment they accept to see and heal the inner child, they become sovereign beings, powerful masters.

By living from fear we have fragmented our selves, we have given away our power over to authority figures, institutions and situations and so we are not living as wholesome beings, we are fragmented. Hence, as we are not sovereign, we are not living in freedom, and we have no power to manifest magic and miracles. The only way to gain back our power as sovereign beings is to heal the inner child who is the magic maker of our lives, to bring back our fragmented selves and make us whole.

The inner child lives in the deep space of our heart, the healing (visualization) that Spirit taught me was to hold my inner child, this little girl on my lap and hug her. To keep her in the light of Spirit, by breathing the Light and covering her with love and light, and whispering in her ears that she is safe and protected, and that she will always be loved no matter what. Spirit guided me to do this from the place of me being the mother of this little girl and hugging her and loving her till she felt comforted. I started doing this everyday and I noticed a great change come over me. I witnessed powerful miracles, the first miracle was that I lost weight, I lost 22 pounds without dieting or exercise, it was so pleasant and so freeing, I was so happy. I found that 99 percent of the day I lived in a state of happiness and gratitude, I also found that I did not react to situations and people the way I did before, I was able to be in the Light and Love of God almost every moment of everyday!

I deeply understood that healing my inner child had brought me back to the place of Power, to the place of sovereignty. This place is the most beautiful place where magic and miracles take place. And the most beautiful thing was that my meditations and prayers became a feeling experience rather than a believing experience! I understood that this is true freedom and true sovereignty of being the Master of our life. I could now really see people and see the things that they do from the place of true compassion and love. My experiences lead me to understand that this is the place where fear gets transformed to love.

Healing the inner child is true healing that helps us rise above the ego and live in conscious awareness every moment. It releases us from fear and allows the Master, our Great I AM Presence to take charge of our life always!

Love, light, peace, joy and freedom to ALL
Infinite blessings from my heart,
Premlatha/Goddesslove

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