Women and Men

Ok so what the heck am I missing.......... I wonder if it is just the differences between men and women. maybe my expectations are to high... Sigh........ I live my hubby dearly but sometimes I want to SMACK HIM! He can be such a baby.. only thinking of himself and wanting "mommy" to do it all for him... (that is NOT happening anymore let me assure you) I am calling him on it daily and while I think our friendship has grown significantly.. which is good.Some of the other aspects have shrunk back (as they always seem to do with me) I usually think its because there is something wrong with me (which of course is not true) Maybe I need to read men are from Marz women are from venus... But I dont want too!! I just want to have a loving open trusting happy relationship with this man.. surely he wants the same but he still gets stuck in self pity and stuff... when that happens I cant touch him. It makes me a bit irritated since I have let go of that kind of thing so easily these days where it seems almost NOTHING can touch me (almost being the operative word) anyway any insite into the workings of still slightly immature men would be appreciated.
Namaste
Beth