I tried dating again. Hmmm....what dimension do we date from? Eh eh eh.....

Decided to try dating again. Met two men via an online dating service. It was seriously awful as I was coming from this 'new' place and they weren't. It was also a marvelous lesson in how much I've changed. They were playing the 'old' games, the dance, the posturing while I was coming from complete honesty. It sounds heavier than it was--- I mean I wasn't baring all, rather I was responding to what I heard in an honest way, without pretense while they couldn't. So I was responding to pseudo-bullshit in an honest and tactful (polite) way. Strange energy indeed. This is not male bashing, I was curious if anyone else of either sex has had a similar experience. I am happy for the lesson I learned and am just so happy alone with my cat. Whatever was I thinking?! I will resume drifting down this river and not try too hard to make anything happen anymore.