RE: Girls VS Grown Women

Starkid of Brightness's picture
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Ok I mean come on. Who can not get irked at this as if im pushed or other girls are pushed into a sterotype. Im 16 and more smarter than this "Girl" sterotype. Well you could say "Well then your acting like a adult(woman)." But cant we all just accept that teenagers are mature to for once? Besides saying were, "16 going on 30?." Were just 16 growing up with a mind. And Im a girl mature enough to say I dont like this sterotype of what im supposed to be or act like. Since I am none of these things.
(My comments in parenthesis)

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.(I dont do this)
Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.(Well, yes I wou invite him along)
Girls want to control the man in their life.(Actually i dont care what he does except cheating ofcourse)
Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.(let him do whatever, i dont own him)
Girls check you for not calling them.(eh lol I dont care if he calls or not)
Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.(true I do have alot of school)
Girls are afraid to be alone.(I like my alone time. And I dont want a husband. At this moment I dont want a boyfriend and have been that way for quite a while?
Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.(Sure do! and i love the discoveries)
Girls ignore the good guys.(I love sensitive guys who are polite etc.)
Grown women ignore the bad guys.(exactly! so do I)
Girls make you come home.(I wouldent want a guy to come home or disturb his peace)
Grown women make you want to come home.(hehe no comment)
Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.(pfff Im beautiful)
Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.(Damn straight!)
Girls try to manipulate all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).(lol what? Ill be hanging with his friends watching football jk. or being with my friends or alone time)
Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.(yep I hear that!)
Girls think a guy crying is weak.(I think crying is a sign of streanght, especialy guys)
Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.(and i would tottally hold a person and listen to them)
Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.(no I just want love. spoiled? like buying things? lol nah I dont need that)
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate
without fear of losing his 'manhood'.(awww yeah^^)
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.(actually weird thing. i dont carry pain from one guy to another)
Grown women know that that was just one man.(yeah one guy)
Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.(no no no...im shy. so i dont budge. and accept that he'll probley pass..or ya never know)
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.(yes, that realization is fun and interesting to experience as i have)
Girls will read this and get an attitude.(Only the ones with minds)
Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends.

I see by this post GW do many girly things which I dont understand why they have all these bad feelings and relationship problems. people need to learn how to realese and move on. its quite simple with inconditional love. the emotions dissolve quikly and its fine.
Do not go where the path may lead, go instead, where there is no path and leave a trail."
WHICH ARE YOU?
A Girl or GROWN WOMAN - Hmmmm?

HMMMMMMM Im a girl who is mature. And someone please tell me, why all these stupid "girly" things you do in the first place?

My rant for today^^
Have a nice day
Starkid/Amanda