A Pisces Dionysus View on Relationships

Alot of relationships in this day in age seem to be built upon a faulty foundation time and time again. A good majority of people in the world are programmed to seek a partner (or mate) based mainly upon sexual attraction. Now dont get me wrong, its important to have a sexual attraction for the person that you are willing to build a bond and even life with, but it is also even more important to have a loving, "trust" worthy attraction for that person as well.

Everywhere you look in life you'll see women nagging about men and men nagging about women and so on and so forth. Its seriously pointless and it seems endless I know. Sometimes it gets so damn annoying that you may even contemplate celebacy more than you would contemplating trying to pursue and build another relationship.

The problem is this, in the back of each and everyone of our minds we have a picture of finding that perfect someone who we can share our lives with until the end of our days. We have our pictures of a beautiful wife (or husband), a couple of cute little kids running around, and a beautful house with a beautiful yard where you can almost picture your young ones running around, playing with the family dog, and just having a good ol time knowing that you have built such a beautiful meaningful life full of love, trust and security.
Now...
...that part isnt the wrong part. That image is actually a human beings genetically woven vision of what a loving realtionship is supposed to be and it is beautiful indeed. Its beautiful because it is an image (even a very realistic possibility) embraced by true love and it embraces the cycle of life.

What happens it seems, is people get way to caught up in themselves or in external stimuli that has a "misleading" pre-designed way of making that core image all fuzzy and misinterpretated. It also doesnt help that the media and various entertainment corperations in this day in age use our own impulses against us in order to (you said it) make more money.

Everywhere you look anymore, you see sexually stimulating images. You cant even log into your myspace without seeing some sexy girl with an conveniently lowcut shirt on, partially revealing her soft, full, mocha-cream colored breasts, falsely typing away, twirling a strand of her hair as if shes just doing her normal "innocent" routine of chatting amongst friends, and alot of people........
.....fall (and will always fall) victim to stuff like this if they dont recognize it for what it is. People just need to realize that this is the stuff that keeps hindering your relationships time and time again.

This (ladies and gentlemen), is an example of what kind of programming is inflicted upon you (on a daily basis) to keep you as far away from that natural love-oriented picture of a male/female relationship (in the back of your mind) as you can be. Its not that its hopeless trying to build a relationship in this day and age, it just means that if you really want to build that kind of relationship with someone, then you need to base it on love and love alone....

.....and before you do that, you may need to re-evaluate what true love is (not to mention recognize and dissasemble the impure cravings that weaken it). Most people now-a-days go through a routine each and everytime they get into a relationship. This is a routine "where" they're getting love mixed up with infatuation (and/or lust or both). People seem to come off as confused everytime the relationship starts getting shaky at the time when the sex begins to lose that sense of newness and fascination that it had when you first got freaky with the person in the first place.
Due to TV and media, self righteous egotistical pop music, pop stars, icons, and just about every human body related product that is out there today, people have lost track of the love foundation that relationships were meant to be built upon in the first place. They try replacing the foundation for it with sexual interest and I assure you......it doesnt work.

If you look at nature you can see that pretty much all female species hold the key to any kind of sexual encounter. It is the female that makes the choice of when sexual encounters occur and it is usally because it has to do with creating new life. Thats how all female creatures were designed (even humans) to be and that is because it is the female who is equipped with all the nurturing characteristics of raising and caring for young-lings (of various different kinds of species) that come into this world.

Now for male creatures. Male creatures, are always sexually active. It is the male creature that carries the seed of life around with him pretty much 24/7 just waiting for the females call that says to the male "I'm ready to get down and dirty big boy"!! That right there, is the original design. So who can actually blame a man for having sex on the brain? Its not like this is all that a male creature is designed for oh no! no! no! The male does something else that naturally gives him his worth. He protects (not only) his children like the mother does, but he protects the mother as well and that is what brings the overall security to a family that is built upon love, and if you think about it......

....... its a perfect design, simple even.

Anyway, what I'm getting at is the point that a good majority of people who get into relationships now-a-days arent getting into them to serve this kind of a purpose in any way (even though they may think they are). Some people look for a partner cause they need someone to share expenses with so that they can actually afford to live comfortably. Some get into relationships because they just want to have sex, and some get into relationships because they mistake infatuation and sexual attraction for love and so they make a decision to ride it on out until the wheels come off. Some people even try and force it past that point (which is ridiculous).

The majority of failed relationships exist among young people and the reason for it is really no big surprise at all. Media and various corperations are obsessed with young people. Young people are the most easily mislead people on the face of the planet and it is because they're adult hormones are developing and starting to kick in, and...........

.......... due to the totally "conformist enforcment" way of life that they are forced to live...

....they become full of rebellion, angst and a boat load of emotional stresses and pain. Young people are still clinging to that (Leave me alone I just want to be at peace!!) state of mind that exists and will exist in each and everyone of us for as long as we will live. Young people are faced with so much physical and emotional strain (from every direction at once) that they really dont have much else to look forward to besides finding someone other than their own brainwashed, worker-bee, parents to help them find comfort and a sense of belonging or purpose. Thats why these young people are so eager to attempt to build relationships of their own and you know what? Its because deep in the back of their minds they still have that picture of that beautiful family life that shows them what life is supposed to be but by this time...

.....teenagers are so overwhelmed with emotions, raging hormones, and sexual frustration that they dont take the time and effort to actually try and build a strong loving relationship, they just want alleviation.

So like any person that hurts, they turn to the things that make em feel good for answers and by this time....

.....they've been totally corrupted by the sexually obsessed media and corperations view on sexuality in this country that its nearly a hopeless attempt. Because of these soul-less parasites, young women have learned that the only way to capture somones attention or aquire any worth in this world is by revealing a little bit of sexual provoking skin and maybe perhaps duplicating a sleazy act to go along with it.

Young men are taught to be more focused on the sexual aspect of a woman more than they are about the importance of the purpose that a woman serves in the world. Men are easily pursuaded by this imagery because when they are young and start developing the hormones that trigger sexual interest, they are literally overwhelmed and defeated by it. A man is naturally a sexually eager being just like any male creature on the planet (like I stated previously) so...

....with all of this imagery forced upon them, they completely lose track of the love and pure intentions that male/female relationships were designed to be built upon in the first place. Therefore, it isnt any big mystery why alot of relationships fail time and time again.

Women are supposed to be taught to respect a mans sexually eager nature and not provoke it, while men are supposed to be taught to take care of (not to mention respect) their female counterparts for everything that they are (especially their natural overwhelming beauty). It is a mans place to be the stronger of the two sexes because (based on biological design) men are the stronger of the two sexes in terms of physical attributes. Men are meant to pretty much worship women because of the fact that "through a woman", a man can create his offspring so a piece of them (and the combined union of a man/woman love based unity) can live on after they have departed from the physical world, through the lives of their children.

So, if anyone who reads this has been wandering why they themselves keep experiencing failed relationships time after time......

......then maybe you should observe yourself and see what it is that you really wanted from the person you are with in the first place. If its true love that you seek then you should start by embracing that and start eliminating anything in your life that keeps that love from blossoming with its full God-given potential.

A beautiful flower cant grow to its fullest if the soil is tainted with various kinds of different toxins and poisons. So if you want true love, then start cleaning up the neuro-soil within your mind. Whatever you have a passion for, you create. So if your a man who craves sleazy, sexually immoral women then you have no one to blame but yourself when your girl of choice cheats on you and doesnt value the sex as much as you do.

Also, if you are a woman who acknowleges the influence that your sexual nature has over men, and you consciously choose to use it in order to aquire the things you desire out of life....

......then you have no one to blame but yourself if men treat you like a sexual object. Men wont respect you if you dont respect yourself. They will see you like an object just like the ones you use sex to aquire in the first place.

-SINtheticHead3000 aka Pisces Dionysis)