YOU and the "responsibility" for others

YOU and the "responsibility" for others according to Kuthumi through Cauldra Oct 22, '07 6:34 PM
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YOU

One of the biggest barriers that you have right now is you still hold responsibility for others. As Tobias would tell you, you’re good social workers. You still take so much responsibility for other humans that it’s actually getting in your way. You think you have to be there for your daughter or your son or for that lazy husband of yours or for your friends. No, no, no, no, no. (laughter) Bad game. Bad call. You’re out.

This taking responsibility for others is actually an avoidance device, you see. That’s all it is. Now, you say to yourself, as you’re saying right now but I actually can pierce through that mind and read your thoughts, you say, “But they need me.” No, they don’t. No, they really don’t. They need themselves. That’s all they need. They need themselves. They don’t need you. They don’t need a boss at work. They don’t need somebody’s shoulder to cry on. They need themselves, and they need to start living at home. What’s missing in their life is them.

They’re pulling one over on you – or actually you’re pulling it on yourself when you say, “But they need me.” You haven’t made some important decisions in your life because you’re blaming it on them. “I can’t leave my job that I hate, because ...” Fill in the blanks. La, la, la. You’re actually not doing them any good by not being fully into you, you see.

When you allow yourself the complete love of you, you’re going to be such a whole, integrated, divine, human, outstanding, Standard being that that will have the amazing effect on them. That would be like a huge mirror for them. That will give them the motivation and the potential to change things in their life if they choose – and I have to underline that.