dream spirit

I went to this mans house (I have no idea who he was but in the dream I had been there before and was a little leary about going for some reason, but knew I had to) and he was
waiting outside for me. My cat, who I had to have put down in december, was in the car with me and jumped out..I put him back in and told him to wait there for me. We went into
his house and I was surprised at how nice it was since the outside was all crowded with junk and looked rather shabby. I wondered why I had not wanted to go in. Then he was
showing me around and when we went into the bathroom I looked out the window and saw that it had a lovely view (although I can't recall of what now). When i turned around
the man had left the room and there was a little old lady standing there who I knew was his mother. She bagan talking to me (don't recall what she said). The man came back in
(and I want to say there was another woman there who was suppose to be some kind of helper or something, but I can't recall much about her other than that fact that she was
there). I said to him..your mother is lovely and his eyes got big and he said "WHAT?" I said.."I've been talking to your mother and she is lovely," to which he responded, "that is
impossible because my mother has been dead for two months!" At this point the mother grabbed ahold of me (which felt soooooo real..you know how that is in dreams sometimes)
and I panicked because it felt like she was trying to suck the life out of me or something..whatever it was it freaked me out. I kept telling her to let go and she kept latching on.
At this point I came half awake and had the feeling of something holding onto me and pulling me out of my body..I couldn't move and really panicked. I don't remember if I woke up
fully or not after that, but it finally subsided and I went back to sleep.

Now I have had experieince with spirits before..done some spirit release work, but never had this kind of physical experience..it was so real and I was terrible frightened..which I've
never been of spirits before (I mean she was just a little old lady, probably 5 feet tall and 90 pounds sokeing wet..but her grip was so strong) I'm not sure it she was trying to tell
me something or what..but I'd love some insight if anyone has any since this was 4 nights ago and it is still "haunting" me (no pun intened..lol)

Thanks! Much Love and Light to you!