Looking for information...

I am on the roller coaster ride of awakening, and I've had a lot of unprocessed knowledge and images thrown at me in the last month. I was in search of my ancestors, and I was told by my guide that "It is not important to attach to any human races, it was only important that I know that I was first incarnated on earth through a earth (perhaps plant) spirit and a 'sky father'. I was given brief images of my first parents. My first mother was beautiful, and had ebon skin, deep perfect black like an onyx stone. I had a brief image of my first father, a winged man with a handsome kindly face, whose hair and beard were dirty blond. I saw him very briefly when I was young, and then not at all. My mother eventually took me to a city carved out of a single crystal, seated in the basin of a mountain range. There were others there with me that looked the same (I looked like my mother, like I had been carved out of onyx), and we assisted a central figure in the city, a lady of great power who was another of the human looking creatures with wings, in channeling the crystal cities energy.
As you can imagine, this was a lot to digest. I was wondering if anyone else has ever had any images like these that may help me understand. I would like to know what exactly my first father was - what is the meaning of sky father? Has anyone ever come into contact with a pitch black earth elemental? What do they inhabit - earth, minerals, plants, etc.?
Thanks for your help!

In search of understanding,
Morrigan