Judgment, Whining, Arguing, Attention Seeking...Get over yourselves!

I have some things to say..and I am going to just say them. I am not going to sugar coat this at all. If you were a friend of mine who I loved dearly, but who needed to hear a message I can assure you that Yes..I would speak to them this way..and I have many people in my life I have known..and guess what they love me now..and have loved me always and are the best friends I have because they know sometimes...someone who loves you has to just say it like it is. Here goes..

I have had it with all the whining, and arguing and attention seeking behavior of those on this site. It all comes from one place..a place of Judgment..Non-Acceptance..and is the farthest thing you can get from Unconditional love.

Am I perfect NO. Do I claim to have never been guilty of this NO. I am not placing this in front of you as a judgment..but as a way for you to see your own behaviors. I am a mirror for you..it is part of my job here, and your job here, All of our jobs here is also to be a Mirror for each other so we can ..See Ourselves!

So LOOK>>>

There are blogs posted on here upset at the comments others leave, blogs on here telling everyone how they are 'wrong' if they charge money..or it is ok to charge money. Some ask for help..then get criticized and rejected..all for asking for help. Some feel the need to nit pick and argue every tiny little word choice in a blog they disagree with.

What the hell is wrong with Everyone on here?? Grow UP!! Take a look at how you all act toward each other!!! Is this how we are to teach love to others? Is this how we are going to what...Wake Up the Masses?

Have you all gone crazy?? You have to wake up first before you can wake up anyone!!

You had better go work on some unconditional love of yourselves for awhile..get off your high horses..and learn to play well with each other first. Did you learn nothing in Kindergarten?? First grade too much for you??

When the hell did simple respect, caring, and SILENCE on occasion hurt anyone??

You cannot teach anyone else to love themselves, or wake up or do any thing else until YOU LEARN IT.

No teacher can teach something they themselves have not yet learned.

Again I state NOOOOO I am not perfect..and NOOO I am not claiming to have this down perfect. But I damn well know I have it down much better than many I see on here.

Mind your own business, Take care of your own life, Help others when you are called from your Heart to do so, Be Silent Often ..you can't be Listening while You are Talking!! And for God's sake...if you can't say something nice..then just shut your mouth!

Quit telling others what they should do...what is right or wrong for them. Stop whining when you don't get the attention you seek..look to entertain yourself for awhile! Stop Judging Others!!

There is absolutely NO WAY you can EVER know anothers life experience, even if you were standing right beside them when it happened..you still cannot know Their perspective, Their understandings, or Their Life. So Stop trying to tell others how to live..and just let them Live.

Say what you will...I have been wanting to say this for awhile..now it has been said..and so it Is.

Sheila