Spiritual/Compassionate or Co-Dependent

Disclaimer: All below is merely an exercise in attempting to operate within this illusion.
When one initiates interaction w/ another because it will make you FEEL a certain way, that is Co-Dependency. If you interact w/ one that appears to be suffering because you will FEEL better or good or joyous or whatever, then you are using that to change the way you feel. From a truly spiritual or compassionate standpoint one would act or not act depending on what is best for the one concerned not because it makes you feel better.
Who are we to interject into one's life because it makes us feel "good".

Mark