Fear of Freedom and Unconditional Love

So often what stops us on our path forward in progression has nothing to do with that which is going on outside of us. It has to do with the thoughts and beliefs we are holding to be true. We look back at our lives and see all of our "failures", "mistakes", "lost opportunities", to name a few, and then we look ahead and say "But I have failed in the past who's to say it want happen again?" YOU are!!!!!!

When we look back so often we only focus on the negatives. How often do you say to yourself "DAMN I DID AWESOME!!!" How often do you look back and say "THAT WAS A SMASHING SUCCESS!" Or "I came through that like the goddess I am!"? No, more often we look back and define our lives by what could have beens, or where we went wrong.

We manifest that in our daily lives by being angry or frustrated or fed up or saddened by what is. If we look to the endless possibilities that we are and all that has gone on before as blessings to get us to this point we can see that there is no imperfection in any of it. We are the masters of our divinity and destiny. We are here and all is going according to the perfect plan of creation. What the hell do we have to worry about???

But as it stands many of us or afraid of success! We are afraid of winning! We are afraid of NOT being afraid!

Most would say that that is NOT true! But ask yourself...Am I willing to do whatever it takes to be in joy and freedom? Am I willing to live a life of complete non-judgment, non-attachment, non-duality? Am I willing to question EVERY belief that I hold to be true? Am I willing to take responsibility for what I believe? Am I willing to take responsibility for what I feel? Am I willing to take responsibility for how I react? Am I willing to take responsibility for what I manifest?

When I say, this is my situation and it can not change, I am limiting myself and believing my thoughts. When I say my health is bad, I am believing my conditions as not being able to change. When I say the world needs to be saved, I am believing a set of conditions that I am observing from my limited view of the world and how it is being presented to me by those that own and run the media.

I am not demonstrating trust in ALL THAT IS when I am acting on any of these beliefs. When I behave as if my situation sucks..guess what it DOES! When I act as if I am unhealthy...I am! When I act as if the world is going to hell in a hand basket...that is all I see around me.

Unconditional love is not the love that we have grown up dreaming of. It is not something that comes from the mind. It doesn't judge a situation and give love accordingly. It doesn't decide which side needs light. Unconditional love sees and loves the perfection in all things.

Unconditional love would look at a rapist and love him equally as the victim. Unconditional love sees that the rapist was a victim of child abuse and is only acting on what he has been conditioned. That demonstrates ultimate compassion. Does this mean that the victim should just lay back and take it (so to speak)? HELL NO! I fought like hell, but it is a question of judgment. What brings you more peace? Hatred and anger or forgiveness and letting go?

Living in a place of peace and joy still moves you to action sometimes very strong action. But it is not an action from fear and judgment. It is action from a place of freedom and standing firm in your personal freedom, yet allowing the situation to be as it is. It is not cursing God and the perpetrator. It is not blaming, or finger pointing. It is action. Pure and simple.

I have seen those on here allude to the judgment that those that "allow" are weak or living in a fantasy world. Or "prematurely-enlightened" whatever the hell that means? Well if being weak is represented by standing up to your abuser of 6 years and saying "NO MORE!" and confronting your parents to say that their behavior in trying to control you is no longer acceptable, if leaving a job with no promise of an income while caring for 2 small children, if moving countries with no idea when you will get to see your loved ones again, or giving birth to a baby 2 months early after 4 days of labor and no drugs is a sign of someone who is weak then sign ME up!

Allowing does mean that I no longer question what is but it does not mean that I do nothing. Allowing has meant moving anything and everything out of my life that no longer serves my joy, my peace and my freedom. I can not know what the universe will have me face tomorrow or the day after that but allowing means that I will not judge it as either good or bad, right or wrong, light or dark. It means that as the situation presents itself I will face my fears and look at what is coming up to be healed.

Looking at our own fears and what is causing them is a step of greatest courage and bravery. The battle so many wish to fight outside of themselves will never be won until they take a look in the mirror. We are our own worst enemy. They only person stopping anyone from living in freedom, peace and joy is themselves. To challenge your beliefs and question everything you think you are is one of the bravest, hardest, most courageous things you can do. Yet so many are too afraid to find our what they are afraid of to even take a peek.

What if you are afraid of success? What if you are afraid of being alone? What if you are afraid that no one will want to be with you? What if you are afraid of not existing? What if you are afraid of it all being a great big lie? What if you are afraid of not having a purpose? Are you afraid of having to leave a relationship? Are you afraid of having to move out on your own and no longer be able to rely on your parents support? Are you afraid of having to leave a job?

What are you afraid of? If allowing is for the weak what do you have to be scared of?????? Are you afraid of living a life of joy, freedom, peace and ease????

Yours in Joy,
Jenn

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