looking for guidence opinions and just plain old help

My husband and I seperated awhile back. He felt our paths were no longer in tuned as he comes from a differnt place than I do and our souls did not incarnate here together. He believes he is from another planet sent here to help mankind ascend. He says he is going to turn into a 20 foot golden being that can shoot fireballs from his hands and everything he talks about you can find in a sci fi movie. I asked him to leave. I then started to heal from the hurt I felt. Yes I'm doing good I am a very strong woman when I need to be. My spirit guides have never shown me to leave him. I asked him to leave out of hurt and anger. I made a quick discision with my mind not with my heart not thinking before acting.
He believes that his guides have shown him his true soulmate and she is an ex girlfriend from high school. This happened recently. They have not been in touch she left the country when she was a teenager. He has not tried to find her. This was more than 30 years ago. To make this shorter he has moved back in. Even though he feels this way he has been great doing things around the house that have needed to be done for years and is showing more love and kindness than he has in a long time. He insists that I am not his perfect mate just because I do not come from the same planet. Everyone he has talked to about his experiences has never returned to talk to him some even think he has a personality disorder. I have always refured to it as marching to the tune of his own drummer. I have had dreams of him being in trouble and phoning home to our house for help, but nothing that says just leave him. My heart says stay and help my mind says run like hell. When I first seen him all those years ago I knew we were going to be together it was something in his eyes maybe a twinkle. This was before we were introduced and talked as when I first seen him he was involved with someone and I did not talk to him till he was out of that relationship. He belives his sense of touch and feel is changing and that he has an extra vertabrea in his back always wants to know if it feels different to me. I would appriciate any comments or advise from anyone. If not on this blog please feel free to send something to my inbox. As I said my head says run and my heart says help him find his way. Love peace and harmony.