the twin flame debate...

as usual in spirituality there seems to be opposite takes on twinflames. 

there is the theory of 2 perfect souls who may or may not rejoin in this lifetime, but are always connected, regardless.  then there is the argument that there is no such thing--that people are mirrors and our ultimate goal in this lifetime is to become whole, and that in one way or another, everyone is a soulmate.

in all honesty, this is the debate that has been going on inside of me as well.

the idea of two perfect souls inspires me, gives my relationship a legendary feeling that makes me feel alive.  it makes me feel i am in the perfect place at the perfect time, since my relationship does match that of a twin flame.  i have never looked forward to being a bride or having the traditionally romantic relationship.  for me, i was single for a long time, because i found most attempts at relatinoships superficial.  i need that deep beyond the ocean connection, and even when my own relationship has slight superficiality to it, i get uncomfortable in those lower vibrations and strive to bring them back up....

on the other hand, i also agree with the 2nd argument.  i have had several relationships that were incredibly deep and thought each was my twin flame.  i will likely attempt to apply this to any relationship that i am in because it makes me feel so complete and happy to be with my "other half".  but maybe anyone can be that other half?  maybe it is just an imagined concept that there is one person for me, and that i have multiple dimensions which can feel deeply fulfilled with a number of different people who may fit as a twin flame...

i realized, however, that beyond all explanations and reasoning, i DO believe there is another half to each person.  this doesn't mean that it will be the most fulfilling relationship or that it must occur in order for someone to reach their spiritual perfection.  i have expereinced incredibly deep and fullfilling relationships that have been broken apart by chance and circumstance.  the difference with the one i am in now, is that it is a spiritual tool for me.  it takes me deeper and more strongly to my higher self, whether i ike it or not!  it teaches me uncontional love.  it is not the type of relationship that is easy and agreeable.  i am challenged to understand opposite views, some of which i never imagined i would have to accept in  another person....

so while both debates are valid, i tend to believe in twinsouls which you meet in your spiritual development process. maybe sometimes this isn't nessicary. maybe you find your wholeness on your own and get to have an "agreeable" relationship because you already understand unconditional love on a deep level.  in which case, i believe that you do not need to reunite physically with your twinsoul in your lifetime.

i came across a really interesting site on this subject, that takes some different takes on this whole topic: http://www.heartflamepublishing.com/twinflamephysics.html

love and hope you all find your perfect love - twinflame or not :)

ninja twilight